20 vs 30 vs 40

This is my last year of 30’s. Some dread the 40’s. Honestly, I remember calling guys in 40s old when I was in my 20’s. But, now I think 40 is the new 30. I am super excited about graduating from 30s. However, I can tell my body is slowing changing. Wrinkles and gray hairs seem to appear every month and I seem to move the phone or book close and far back & forth to focus. I also think my taste of guys have evolved and more attracted to younger guys.

About two years ago when I went to a gay club, which is mostly college age boys. I was dancing with this cute Asian guy who was bumping and grinding dangerously on me, I spilled half of my drink. As I was trying to escape from his dangerous movement, Caleb, a cute twink white boy came up between me and the Asian guy. Then the Asian guy abruptly took off. I believe they were friends. Well, one thing led to another and Caleb and I were bumping, grinding and kissing.

Smoke pot and smoke cock

4/20 was few days ago and many people around the country part taken the celebration of cannabis. Marijuana use is becoming more of a cultural norm in a way that disturbs me a little. Though every once in a while, I puff the magic dragon, but I view it as any other indulging activities which too much is too much.

Perhaps, I had one strange experience while stoned when I was in college. There was a guy who lived close my dorm who was straight, was in a fraternity, and wanted to sexually experiment with guys. One night, I went over to his apartment and smoked pot with him. He then asked me to blow smoke on his face. Initially, I thought he meant blow a shot-gun so I reached my lips to his.

Another missed connections

About two years ago, I connected with a guy on Grindr. His name is Lucas, who was visiting from NYC. A handsome tall white silver fox kind of a guy with a physique that resembles an athlete who never works out at the gym.

We exchanged phone numbers and following text messages took place.

That was it. For some reason, I lost interest, but I just Facebook stalked him. Turns out he’s pretty successful artist. Would it  be crazy if I friend requested him now?

Missed opportunity

Instead of writing a story, the following screen shot text messages will tell you the story about Nick.  Apparently he saw me at a bar and found me on okcupid. After messaging each other, we exchanged phone numbers then following text messages happened over the course of several months but we never went out on a date.